The concern about lasting longer in bed is quite common. Especially if you are about to have an encounter with premium escorts who, in addition to being extremely attractive, have enough experience in bed to drive you crazy.
In this article, we will look at a series of practical tips to help those looking to prolong the duration of their sexual encounters with escorts and we will dispel myths about how long sex should last.
How long does sex last?
This question is not so easy to answer, because to begin with we would have to define what we consider sex. Should foreplay or oral sex be considered?
In addition to that, it has been shown that people's perception of how long sex lasts varies significantly with respect to the durations documented in laboratories.
This is why the Journal of Sex Medicine did a study in 2008 on the duration of sex , consulting several sexual therapists and considering only vaginal penetration as sex.
The conclusion was that the duration of sex according to the sex therapists was the following:
- Less than 3 minutes, “worrying” duration. You should consult a doctor.
- From 3 to 7 minutes, “adequate” duration
- From 7 to 13 minutes, “desired” duration.
- From 10 to 30 minutes, duration “too long”.
Likewise, in 2020 another study on how long it took heterosexual women to reach orgasm and the conclusion was that it took a woman 13.41 minutes on average to reach orgasm. So what the therapists in the 2008 study defined as “very long” is just what women need.
Women's preference for longer things should come as no surprise. Even another 2010 study found that women who had vaginal orgasms preferred longer penises.
Tips to last longer in bed
Regardless of what scientific studies say about it, what matters is how long you want to last. In the case of being with category escorts, it is also important to be able to get the most out of the shift, so it is useful to be able to regulate.
Below are some tips that will allow you to control your level of arousal and finish when you want.
Enjoy the foreplay
Premature ejaculation occurs when you are very excited and reach a peak of stimulation very quickly. Take the time to enjoy undressing your VIP escort and appreciate her curves.
Try different types of sex
Penetration is only a small part of sex. Try other practices such as massage, mutual masturbation, or oral sex. Oral sex is excellent for transitioning from pre-penetration to penetration.
Take it slow
If you feel like you are close to ejaculating, slow down or reduce the intensity.
Take a break
One option is to stop for a bit until you feel like you are back in control. So that it doesn't show that you are taking a break, you can take the opportunity to change positions or give oral sex to your luxury companion for a few minutes and then continue.
Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles can contribute to better control and stamina during sex in addition to giving you firmer, longer-lasting erections. If you want to know more visit our article on Kegel exercises.
Calm your mind and control your breathing
Mental arousal plays a big role in sex, so you can close your eyes, breathe deeply, and focus on some part of your body other than your penis until you regain control of the situation.
Save your favorite position for last
Save your favorite position, the one you know turns you on the most for last. Once you've done everything you want, do that position, and give it your all, you no longer need to control yourself and can finally allow yourself to cum.
Be careful with delay gels and condoms
Como hemos visto hay varios métodos para durar más en la cama naturalmente. Aunque también en el mercado va a encontrar que hay distintos geles y preservativos retardantes.
If you do not suffer from premature ejaculation, avoid delay products completely, they will numb your glans and you will not feel anything, which could lead to losing your erection.
Basically these delay products have benzocaine, which is the same thing that they put on babies' gums so that they don't hurt when their teeth come in.
If you plan to use any of these products, it is recommended that you experiment with them before meeting an escort.